Relationships & Sexual Issues

In today’s society relationships are put under pressures that previous generations did not experience. Expectations are influenced by many inappropriate and often damaging influences. Work, money, social change and the media all effect the way we feel about ourselves and our partners.

It is important to realise that before you can enjoy a fulfilling relationship with someone else, you must be happy with yourself. A partner cannot be expected to fill a gap in your own life; nor should you be expected to play an inappropriate part in someone else’s.

When dealing with relationship issues my approach is to deal with the individuals involved separately - it may take two to tango but both need to be able to dance alone. Most relationships have peaks and troughs but with mutual support it is usually possible to evolve to a greater understanding of each other’s viewpoints and needs.

Sex plays such a great part in modern life that it is hardly surprising that many people feel that they are not performing well enough or that their needs are not being met. As in many aspects of life we tend to sabotage ourselves by trying too hard or expecting too much too soon.

Hypnosis and other therapeutic techniques can greatly enhance sexual pleasure for both women and men.